KellBell08's Datingish

I Summon You

Wed, 10 Dec 2008 06:39:54 GMT

Every choice you make has an expected reaction,

how can you be disappointed when you don't even know what you were expecting?

Underdog

Wed, 10 Dec 2008 06:39:24 GMT

Its human nature to be self conscious of all our flaws and to be aware of our surroundings and their flaws.

We are damn critical of all of THEIR flaws, yes THE UNDERDOGS.

We seem to look past this individual, you know they are inferior in looks, strength, intelligence...

Whos the ultimate judge of the underdog? you? me? them?

Is the underdog aware of his/her inferiority?

CAN THE UNDERDOG DEFEAT YOU?

"got no regard for the thing that you don't understand,
you got no fear of the underdog,
that's why you will not survive"

No Doubt

Wed, 10 Dec 2008 06:38:03 GMT

You are capable of doing anything that you want to do, the possibilities are endless... surely we hear that constantly.

That seems out of his character to do that...

Makes you wonder- if in fact possibilities are endless... how can one be so sure?

That leads me to questioning, can you really give someone the benefit of the doubt?

Give it away now

Wed, 10 Dec 2008 06:37:38 GMT

Givers and Takers,

so which one is better?

Givers, which is what I'd say I am, are taken advantage of and rarely do they get half of what they recieve yet can't complain because they as in I don't do it for any sort of pay in return, but some takers, keep taking and I feel stripped of all I have, to the point where I want to draw the line.

When do givers know to stop giving, and takers stop taking?

In With the Old?

Wed, 10 Dec 2008 06:36:45 GMT

Why do some people just keep crossing your path?

It bothers me that whats bad for you is always there waiting for you and willing to hurt you. I've fallin into that enough though, I don't want to self inflict hmm whats the word, its not danger, not pain, but something else. Bottom line: I am aware of what goes on, the way it begins, and how it ends.

Life is just a cycle, relationships are cycles, and cycles are cycles.

I'd like to be a believer in the whole "things work themselves out" theory but I really think that people can control their fate for my most part, so is fate what leads us to the decisions we make, because I always thought it was logic.

So you know its wrong... why can't you just stay away?

I've come to the point where I'm numb about everyone I've cared for in the past, everything that once hurt me, kept me up at night, and is tatoo'd in my brain. Can one really get rid of this emotional and mental baggage?

Yes, I believe so.

Out with the old... In with new.

Wanna Know You

Wed, 10 Dec 2008 06:36:05 GMT

It's funny how much you can NOT know about someone.

You may know everything you've been able to observe or what he/she choses to tell you but what about when they're alone or with someone else... Theres less that you don't know but why does that seem to overpower the millions of things you do know?

Present Perfect

Wed, 10 Dec 2008 06:34:58 GMT

You can't get to your future if your past is in the present.

She Wouldn't Do It If It Wasn't One

Wed, 10 Dec 2008 06:34:17 GMT

Why do people justify their actions by saying,

"Its not a big deal"

if its not a big deal, why is it worth doing it?

shouldn't we do things that are big deals, in a good way?

I Feel Your Flame On Me

Wed, 10 Dec 2008 06:33:12 GMT

I used to think that the fact that I was indecisive was a flaw.
I over thought every situation.
I had to keep my wall up because it wasn't ever worth it being vulnerable.
I didn't want to second guess my self and then I found this summer
that its not about ruling with logic all the time, it can be just instinct and some kind of trust that you have in someone else to not take advantage of what your giving them.
I wasn't indecisive, I definitely knew what I wanted & just took a risk regardless of how vulnerable I became.

I realized that even though I have hope in people, I never had experienced someone who actually proved that good people, patient people, honest people existed.

Sex & the City

Mon, 25 Aug 2008 08:17:24 GMT

“Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous.”